Health, Home, Purpose and Community
So why do I still feel isolated from my Queer Community
From SAMHSA's: Leading Change A plan for SAMHSA's roles and Actions 2011 - 2014.
"Recovery is a unique journey for each individual, and each person in recovery must choose the range of services and supports ranging from clinical treatment to peer services. To facilitate resilience, recovery, and social inclusion, persons with mental health and substance abuse use disorders will also need to receive treatment for their co-occurring health problems. Access to services must be paired with shared decision-making process between people in recovery and providers to determine how best to select, structure, and delivers services. Like other aspects of health care and unless adjudicated by courts of law, people have the right to choose and determine what services and treatments best meet their needs and preferences. Self-determination is the foundation of person-centered and consumer-driven recovery supports and systems, including such approaches as person-centered planning, shared decision making , and peer-operated services. People in recovery should be meaningfully involved in all aspects of behavioral health services, including planning, policy development, training, delivery, administration, and research."
A mouthful for sure, but me me as a person with mental health and substance abuse use disorders while receiving treatment for my being HIV+, while being disabled I often question is my recovery 100% or half way or held back do to being on social security disability insurance that keeps me feeling isolated from my own queer community after following the goal of recovery that is exemplified through a life that includes:
- Health----Overcoming or managing one's disease(s) as well as living in a physically and emotionally healthy way;
- Home----A stable and safe place to live that that supports recovery;
- Purpose----Meaningful daily activities, such as a job, school, volunteerism, family, care taking, or creative endeavors, and the independence, income, and resources to participate in society; and
- Community----Relationships and social networks that provide support, friendship, love and hope.
It's my GLBT community that causes me to struggle as I don't meet their expectations of someone who's not just housed and has purpose, but in their eyes living in poverty as the model keeps you in poverty to have all of these things and be fully recovered is where I'm at soon to be 56 years of age.
Much is written on disparities and poverty, low income and I will pick up on this topic and look at what's being done for the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender community over all health and those of us living in the commmunity living with both substance abuse and behavioral health care and co-occurring HIV+ diagnoses, all three each a hurdle in itself, combined I'm often told when out speaking, sharing my story what are you doing as a consumer of all of the above to survive.
If this is you, if you feel have followed an excellent model, one that I advocate for as well as advocate for treatment for both, and are aging and feeling isolated, I'd love to hear from you.
I also want to share with you a story that happened recently. I ran into a friend, fellow HIV/AIDS cyclist from years ago, we exchanged our hello's and quick catching up when an articulate panhandler approached, this was on ninth avenue in Manhattan, 10:30 AM. He showed us a $1 and said he was short $.50 cents of which both myself and my friend each had a quarter and gave to him. He said thank you and then added, what' the best nation in the Country, I said not the United States, can it be France...his response was a donation. That was both funny and for the short time this individual was talking to two others, he felt socially connected (social inclusion), not social exclusion.
Moral of this story, be safe, I know it's hard, but if you don't have change a simple hello, or acknowledgement that there is a person asking you will go a far way in his or her day. And if you do, even a quarter or dime will help. Social inclusion, not social exclusion has to start somewhere.